Children and money

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Children need love not money

Children need love not economic success. Children need the love of their parents. They need the parents soles with them. Not souls, but soles. They do not need their parents to be thinking about them while they are at work. They need their parents to be physically with them, the soles of their feet next to them.

Do not worry about the economy think of your Children

Forget about your career and sending kids to day care. Be with your children. I am an American living in Eastern Europe (I love America by the way I am here for family reasons). I am not just talking. I really live this way. I spend my time on this earth with my family, not my job, even if I do not life a super lifestyle. I am an educated professional from Boston, umm Beacon Hill.

Here in Eastern Europe, people will live in a small rented apartment if it means they will not have to send their kids to day care. Career means so much in America. Having a nice house, saving for kids education and have all nice things are so important in the USA, that American parents work very hard, both parent working their careers to have a ‘normal’ lifestyle. This ‘normal’ lifestyle in the States, in any other economy is extravagant. Believe me, its an extravagant lifestyle and its unnatural to spend so little time with your children. Kids need to be with their parents, not money.

Matrix kids

American parents are part of a Matrix like program that they can not even see this. The most important years in your kids life is 0 to 15. Most parents are working their life away at this time. What will be the result? Matrix babies with neurosis latter on in life.

Worried about the economy?

Do not worry about the economy. Worry about being with your children. Read to them, and have the mother at home all day. Fathers work at home or at least home by four in the afternoon. Sounds hard right? If your job is hurting your children, quit your job. What more important thing is there in life than children? Your career? Your money? Your position? Your boss? I see people in Eastern Europe live on nothing and I think the kids are much healthier psychologically, more balanced, do not do violence (look at any statistic), less divorces, more respectful, better educated and more loving happy children. You can not even compare the two worlds. When I am in a Ukraine village, I many people without water, in their homes, but the kids are happy; and when I am in Boston I see many kids on the road to ruin, selfishness, hyper consumption etc.

America and children

I am an American and love America, but think about the original Americans (native American or colonists) they spent time with their families. Today, at 2 years old kids are in day care. This is crazy and people do not even realize it.

So if you are saving for your children’s education, forget it. Your children’s brain if formed for life under the age 15. Read to them now, be with them now. IQ is determined when they are young. IQ is more important than where they went to school. If you want them to have a happy marriage, show them love now by being with them, instead of your job. Do not worry about the economy, worry about your children.